Written by Prof. Mannixs E. Paul, PhD, FCFIP, FCIML, FCECFI, FFAR
Introduction
It is often said that money changes people. For some, sudden wealth becomes a reason to forget their origins and those who stood by them when life was complicated. They begin to see themselves as better than others, speaking with arrogance and acting with disrespect. While wealth can bring comfort, influence, and recognition, it does not define true greatness. What defines a person is how they treat others, especially when they have the power to either lift people up or push them down.
Wealth Does Not Last Forever
Riches can be here today and gone tomorrow. History is filled with examples of fortunes gained and lost. Economic downturns, poor choices, or simply the passage of time can erase what once looked secure. However, what endures is character—how people remember you after the money fades. Wealth may provide opportunities, but respect is earned through humility, integrity, and compassion. Without these values, money becomes empty and meaningless.
Why Humility Matters
Pride is one of the greatest dangers of success. It isolates people, making them believe they no longer need others. Humility, on the other hand, keeps us grounded. A humble person does not look down on others but recognizes that success is never achieved alone. Behind every achievement are parents, friends, mentors, teachers, or even strangers who gave a helping hand. Humility allows us to remain approachable and respected, no matter how far we rise.
The Value of Gratitude
Gratitude is closely tied to humility. Remembering the people who helped us along the way gives wealth its real meaning. A thankful heart not only honors those relationships but also inspires generosity. The most admired leaders and achievers in history are not remembered solely for their possessions but for their willingness to serve others. When wealth is combined with gratitude, it becomes a tool for building bridges instead of walls.
True Success Is About Impact, Not Possessions
The world measures success in different ways. Some look at bank accounts, cars, or houses. Yet none of these things defines a person’s true worth. Genuine success is measured by our positive impact on others, the respect we earn, the kindness we show, and the legacy we leave behind. Riches may impress for a moment, but character and humility leave a lasting mark on people’s hearts.
Conclusion
Wealth is not evil, but can become destructive when it breeds pride and arrogance. To be truly great, we must remember those who helped us rise, treat others with respect, and remain humble in every achievement. True treasure lies not in what we own but in how we relate to others. A life of humility and gratitude is far richer than one filled with possessions but empty of love and respect.
Courtesy of MEFoundation